Finding Myself Through Accessible Calderdale: A Story of Inclusion by Paul Manchip

Accessible Calderdale: Finding Acceptance, Community and a Place to Belong

A Life Spent Hiding

Finding Accessible Calderdale really did change my life.

For much of my life, I felt like I had to hide who I really was. From school to the workplace, being myself always seemed to come with a price. At school, I spent more time in isolation or detention than I did in actual lessons. And in the world of work, I’d often hear, “We’re disability-friendly”—but the reality rarely matched the promise.

Even at home, things weren’t always straightforward. If I’m honest, only about one percent of my family truly accepted me for who I am. That small, treasured group included my dad—and a few others whose quiet support meant the world.

Discovering Accessible Calderdale

For years, I searched for somewhere I could just be me. Somewhere I didn’t have to mask or mould myself to fit in.

And then I found Accessible Calderdale.

And everything changed.

Digital artwork of a hand inserting a memory card into a person’s head with emotion labels beside it.
A hand inserts a memory card into a man’s head to highlight how emotions like pain and depression aren’t easily changed—#NotAlwaysVisible.

Finding Belonging and Confidence

I found my people. People who didn’t just accept difference—they welcomed it. People who saw me, understood me, and helped me find the confidence to embrace my authentic self.

Accessible Calderdale isn’t just a team. It’s not just a project.

It’s a family.

Close-up of a human eye reflecting a surreal image of a planet with a colourful fish swimming across it.
A surreal close-up of an eye reflecting a blue planet and a colourful fish, symbolising imagination and inner worlds.

A Truly Inclusive Community

A family that offers warmth, understanding, and a sense of belonging that’s all too rare these days.

In today’s society, finding a space where you’re truly accepted for who you are is nothing short of extraordinary. But that’s exactly what Accessible Calderdale provides. And what they’ve given me isn’t just personal—it’s transformative.

Accessible Calderdale logo with people using different mobility aids and the words “THANK YOU!” below.
Graphic showing people with different mobility aids crossing a hill made of the words “Accessible Calderdale,” with “Thank You!” in bold text.

Creating a Better Future Through Inclusion

Because when we build communities rooted in empathy and inclusion, we don’t just improve lives—we shape a better future for everyone.

Thank you my Lovelys